Saturday, January 31, 2026

Following God's Dreams for our Purity

Following God’s Dreams for Us:

Following God in Purity

Genesis 39

INTRODUCTION

God gives dreams… but He also gives a path. And that path always includes purity. Joseph didn’t stumble into God’s dream. He walked there; step by step, choice by choice, conviction by conviction.

Genesis 39 shows us not only what Joseph did, but how he did it.
And it gives us a pattern for following God in purity today.

Let’s walk through four steps Joseph took; four steps every believer can take; to follow God faithfully in a world filled with temptation.

A. FIX YOUR IDENTITY IN CHRIST

Joseph knew who and whose he was.
“The Lord…” (Gen. 39:2, 3, 5)

Before Joseph ever faced temptation, Scripture tells us three times:  “The Lord was with Joseph.”  But the emphasis here is not just presence… it is possession. Joseph belonged to God. And purity always begins with knowing who you belong to.

We were bought with a price; the precious blood of Jesus.
Redemption does not give us a license to sin; it gives us a reason to flee from it.

When we consider how much God hates sin; that He sent His Son to die for it;  we cannot grin at sin… we cannot play with sin… we cannot linger around the things that cost Christ His life.

Paul says we are to glorify God in our bodies.
Food is a gift, but gluttony dishonors God.
Pleasure is a gift, but perversion destroys purity.

We admit we are sinners, but confession is not the end; it is the beginning of repentance.

The Greek word for “confess” is homologeō; to “say the same thing.” To call sin what God calls it.

Not “over‑eating,” but gluttony.
Not “cutting loose,” but drunkenness.
Not “a mistake,” but sin.

When we homologeō; say the same thing about sin that God says; He is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse.

Fix your identity in Christ. Be homogenized with Christ.

GracePointe #1:  Purity begins with identity, not effort. When we know who we belong to, temptation loses the right to claim us.

B. LOOK BEYOND THE MOMENT

Joseph looked at the long-term, not the short-term.
“But he refused…” (Gen. 39:8)

Joseph didn’t just refuse Potiphar’s wife; he remembered something.
He remembered God’s dreams for him.
He remembered the future God had promised.

Temptation always shrinks when the future gets big.

Sin grows when eternity gets small.

Potiphar’s wife offered a moment.
God offered a lifetime.
Joseph chose the long view.

Temptation always hides the price tag.
It shows the pleasure but hides the pain.
Joseph refused because he counted the cost.

GracePointe #2:
Temporary temptation shrinks when our view of eternity grows. We must see beyond the moment to have strength in the moment.

C. ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES

Joseph created safeguards as guardrails.
“he did not heed her… or even be with her” (Gen. 39:10)

Joseph didn’t just avoid the act; he avoided the atmosphere.
He refused to be with her.

He understood that proximity is often the first step toward compromise.
You don’t fall into sin from a distance.
You drift into it by degrees.

Boundaries are not legalism; they are love for God, love for others, and love for your own soul.

Joseph also made a pre‑decision.
He didn’t wait until the heat of the moment to decide what he believed.
Boundaries are pre‑decisions that protect future obedience.

If you wait until the moment of temptation, you’ve waited too long.

GracePointe #3:
Boundaries are signs of wisdom, not weakness. We don’t rise to our intentions; we fall to the level of our boundaries.

D. ESCAPE IMMEDIATELY

Joseph did not negotiate; he fled.
“he left his garment… fled and ran outside.” (Gen. 39:12)

Verse 11 gives us a detail we often overlook:
“None of the men of the house was inside.”

That is not a throwaway line.
Scripture includes it for a reason.

Joseph should have fled the moment he saw he was alone with her.
He knew her intentions.
He knew the pattern.
He knew the danger.

He should have escaped before the temptation escalated.

And Scripture gives us a principle that applies directly here:

1 Corinthians 10:12–14
“Let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall…
God will provide a way of escape…
Therefore, flee…”

With every temptation, God provides an exit.
But you must take it.
Delayed obedience is disobedience.

And when we delay, we begin to treat grace the wrong way.

Let me give you an illustration.

A professor once assigned a term paper. On the due date, several students weren’t ready and begged for grace. The professor granted it, and they were amazed by his kindness.

A week later, they still weren’t ready, and again he extended grace. They appreciated it.

Another week passed, and they assumed he would extend grace again. But this time he didn’t. They were shocked.

“That’s not fair!” they cried.

“Oh, you want justice?” he said. “Then here is justice: an F for the first week, an F for the second week, an F for the third week, and an F for this week.”

That is justice.
And that is what happens when we treat grace casually.

When we do not fix our identity in Christ…

When we do not look beyond the moment…
When we do not establish boundaries…
When we do not escape immediately…

We move from amazing grace,
to appreciated grace,
to assumed grace,
to appalling grace.

GracePointe #4:
Delayed obedience is disobedience. The fastest way out of temptation is your feet. When God provides the escape, take the exit.


CONCLUSION

Joseph didn’t arrive at God’s dream by accident.
He walked there with integrity.
He walked there with conviction.
He walked there with purity.

And so can we.

Fix your identity.
Look beyond the moment.
Establish boundaries.
Escape immediately.

God’s dreams are worth it.
Your testimony is worth it.
Your future is worth it.
Christ is worth it.