When I was a kid,
my mother was a widow, raising three kids and many
times without a job. When my
grandmother, also a widow, sold the family farm, she would often take all five
of us out to dinner. I remember one time my mother and grandmother were
“arguing” over who would pay the $10 bill for all five of us at Bill’s
Restaurant at Parker Plaza in Weatherford (remember the days when five people
could eat for $10 at a restaurant?).
I don’t remember
how old I was but my grammar wasn’t the greatest and I piped up and said,
“Mama, let Nonna pay, she’s gots more money than we gots!”
The word we are
studying this week, kindness, reminded me of that story so let’s look at the
word, but not in English but in the New Testament Greek.
The word
kindness in the Greek is crestotes and is sometimes translated as kindness or
goodness and has the root of someone who loans someone else money or lets
someone borrow something.
Kindness began with God.
Eph. 2:7 tells
us that one of these days, God is going to show us just how much he has to
share with us in his free gift of his fabulous wealth and just how good and
kind he has been to us in Jesus Christ.
That verse leads into how we are saved based on how good God is and not
how good we are (quite frankly because we are not that good).
Paul does the
same thing when he was writing his young pastor protégé, Titus. God’s kindness
and love combined with His mercy, Paul wrote in Titus 3:4-6, and again there is
an abundance flowing from God.
In Romans 2:4,
again Paul uses the word crestotes twice in one verse, explaining that it is
the riches of God’s goodness and kindness that leads us to change our ways. It
is like we live next door to a guy who has all of the tools in the world and
rather than us trying to go out and buy all those same tools ourselves, the
neighbor comes over and gives us the keys to His tool shed and says, “Don’t go
out and buy all these things yourself. Just use mine.”
God doesn’t want
us to use our own kindness because He knows on our own, we don’t have that
much. Romans 3:12 says that “there are none who do goodness and kindness; no,
not one.” He also says in that same verse that everyone has become
unprofitable, worthless, useless.
Our neighbor,
God, has the tools including His kindness and goodness, that if we were to try
to get the same amount of “tools” we would go broke, become unprofitable, and
once we got home, they would appear worthless compared with what God has to
share with us.
But there is
another variation of the word crestotes that is used in the New Testament that
is surprising in how it is translated; no, it’s not rendered “good” or “kind”
but it is translated “easy”.
“Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle
and lowly in heart, and you will find rest in your souls. For My yoke is
easy (crestos) and my burden light.”
Jesus used the
word again in Luke 6:35, “Lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward
will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is kind (crestos)
to the unthankful and evil.”
When we study
the word kindness, and see how it comes from borrowing from someone else, it’s
not that we are being a moocher from God and taking advantage of His offer to
use His tools of kindness and goodness.
It’s that “He’s
gots” more kindness than we do and He is giving us His keys to use the wealth
of His toolshed of kindness anytime we need His storehouse of tools.